http://mydatingschool.com/blogs Dr. Paulette Sherman's blog about unconscious relationship themes Mon, 08 Mar 2010 17:54:03 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en I looked up the term, ‘success’ in Wikipedia today and it said it was, ‘a level of social status, an objective goal.’ On Dictionary.com success was defined as, ‘the attainment of wealth, position, honors and the like.’ Success often seems oriented around achievement and status but to me success means ... http://mydatingschool.com/blogs/blog/2010/03/08/success-is-an-inside-job/ Us on a dinner date at Cowgirl Last night we had a dinner date at ‘The Cowgirl’s Hall of Fame.’ It was a cute restaurant with a western flair. The staff there wore cowboy hats and sang ‘Happy Birthday’ with a cowbell. Supposedly the female gang from ‘Sex and the City’ ... http://mydatingschool.com/blogs/blog/2010/03/07/the-cowgirl-hall-of-fame-date/ I was stumped for a blog idea today (this now being blog #189) so my friend suggested this topic. It was a good one that I had not considered. We cannot order up love from the universe and we often need to spend time waiting for what we want in ... http://mydatingschool.com/blogs/blog/2010/03/01/if-you-havent-yet-met-your-mate-5-things-you-can-do-in-the-interim/ Us at 'Play' So yesterday we stopped by this place called ‘Play.’ It was a restaurant/lounge that had a bar, pool, bowling, air hockey, board games, music, laser lights and cool décor. There was no cover charge, we found easy street parking and the food there was reasonably priced. I knew ... http://mydatingschool.com/blogs/blog/2010/02/28/the-play-date/ Older singles often say that it is much harder to date at an older age because the dating pool is smaller, they are often not that tech-savvy and they eschew online dating, they’ve been out of practice with dating for awhile and feel that their expectations for appropriate decorum is ... http://mydatingschool.com/blogs/blog/2010/02/27/10-reasons-why-its-great-to-date-after-65/ When first dating someone it is easy to go into panic mode whilst you are anticipating that next call. This can happen in different ways. Sometimes you feel that he should call within 24 hours of your first date to ask you out again or you have some other script ... http://mydatingschool.com/blogs/blog/2010/02/26/5-ways-to-address-your-initial-dating-anxiety/  I was riding the subway and I glanced up at a billboard that advertised a new book called ‘Living Oprah’ written by Robyn Okrant. It was about an ordinary woman who decides to follow all of Oprah’s advice for a year in order to see how it transforms her. I ... http://mydatingschool.com/blogs/blog/2010/02/24/what-is-your-relationship-with-celebrity-worship/ Our high tea at the St. Regis   We went to high tea at the St. Regis in Manhattan this Sunday. It was a present from my mom to celebrate our anniversary. It was a beautiful elegant setting and I felt like I was in a time of gilded elegance. There was ... http://mydatingschool.com/blogs/blog/2010/02/21/the-high-tea-date-at-the-st-regis-in-nyc/ Over the years in working with clients I often see seven cognitive patterns that interfere with happiness on all levels, including dating.  Today I will explore these seven cognitive patterns with you.  Please read them carefully and see if you can relate to doing this in any area of your ... http://mydatingschool.com/blogs/blog/2010/02/20/7-toxic-thought-patterns-that-prevent-happiness-in-love-otherwise/ Today I saw the movie, ‘Valentine’s Day’ (a little after the holiday) but I wanted to see what all the hype was about. I did not love the movie but it was enjoyable. The things I liked about it were the varied types of love relationships shown-a gay relationship, an older ... http://mydatingschool.com/blogs/blog/2010/02/19/the-movie-valentines-day/