Unconscious Mating

By: Dr. Paulette Kouffman Sherman

1. Place love notes all around the house stating why that person is so special

2. Create a large card and have everyone (coworkers, family and friends) add a different message about how that person is lovable.

3. Write ‘I Love You’ in lipstick on the bathroom mirror

4. Dedicate their favorite love song to them on the radio, saying what they mean to you.

5. Write a poem or letter describing what a difference they make in your life.

6. Create a photo album of your favorite memories together, with comments.

7. Make a gift basket with all their favorites-candy, wine, magazines, books by their favorite author, favorite music mix, favorite movie and a gift card to their favorite store to show them how well you know them.

8. Send them a singing telegram to make them smile-or do it yourself.

9. Make a speech at dinner (with family or friends) describing what it feels like to love that person and describe what a difference they make in your life.

10. Find a little surprise to give them every day for a week- a book, tape, flower, picture, picnic lunch, card or a scented candle.  Make them feel consistently special, as they do for you.

Dr. Paulette Kouffman Sherman wrote, ‘Dating From The Inside-Out: Using The Law of Attraction in Matters of the Heart,’ published by Atria Books in February 2008. Dr. Sherman is the Director of ‘My Dating School, www.mydatingschool.com which offers classes in dating issues & coaching, hosts an online singles community and offers a free monthly dating e-newsletter. She is a dating expert, a Licensed Psychologist, a certified coach and an ordained minister, able to marry the singles that she coaches in most states. 

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