I Never Know Whether a Guy Likes Me

Dear Date Dr.,

I never know whether a guy likes me.  I dissect every date and torture myself over whether he’ll call.  What should I do?
Signed,

Insecure
 

Dear Insecure,

The question inside the question is not whether he likes you it’s whether you like yourself.  When you go on a job interview, you might be brilliant and talented but still not get the job.  It’s the same with dating.  Your dating experience will be miserable if you continue to let others affect how you feel about yourself.  Look at what is great about you, and hold it as your context no matter whom you meet and how long it lasts.
Dr. Sherman is the author of, ‘Dating From The Inside-Out: Using The Law of Attraction in Matters of the Heart,’ being published by Atria Books in February 2008.  Director of ‘My Dating School’ www.mydatingschool.com in Manhattan, she offers classes in dating issues & coaching.  She is a monthly speaker at The Learning Annex, a dating expert on radio and television shows and has been quoted in publications such as ‘Glamour’ magazine.  Dr. Sherman is a Licensed Psychologist and a certified empowerment coach, specializing in helping clients date successfully, while facilitating insight.